now how do I get out of this...

I've long suspected that I'm a minority in many ways, but I've also discovered that, unlike the majority of people I've met, I can't sleep with people that I'm not totally stoked on. Shit. Now how do I get out of this? I'm too willing to lend people things when I don't need any ties to them. Shit. How do I call it off and get my stuff back? Shit.

If you can't persuade me to have sex after presenting me with a mix cd there is no hope...